before radiate metta to others, radiate metta to youself first
ก่อนที่จะแผ่เมตตาให้คนอื่น แผ่เมตตาให้ตัวเองก่อน
Six stages of metta bhavana in Visuddhimagga are
radiating metta or loving kindness towards
1. yourself
2. a good friend
3. a 'neutral' person
4. a difficult person
5. all four (treating them as equal, equally deserve metta)
6. the entire universe
I will practice this, together with "The Path"